If you’re dating, sleeping with, or otherwise sexually involved with a man, then you already know blow jobs are of the utmost importance to him. He daydreams about them, craves them, and eagerly counts the second until his next one. Master the fine art of giving him truly epic blow jobs, and you’ll have him eating out of your hand.
And if blow jobs that make angels weep aren’t exactly your forte right now, don’t worry. It’s entirely possible to become good at them, as well as master the art of giving them so well, your guy won’t be able to look at your mouth anymore without thinking about the last time you used it to please him. Here are some expert tips to keep in mind.
Stop seeing it as a chore.
There are two types of people out there when it comes to giving blow jobs. Some absolutely love the experience, while others see it as a chore they want to scratch off their to-do list as quickly as possible. If you’re serious about becoming a head-giving expert, the best and easiest way is to learn to love what you’re doing.
Focus on the taste and texture of your lover as you pleasure him. Savor the sounds and movements he makes. It can be a real turn-on to have someone right in the palm of your hand like that, so take a moment to truly appreciate it.
Let him watch you.
Most guys like watching someone give them head almost as much as they like receiving it in the first place. Men are visual creatures, so the right eye candy can take a blow job that’s already good all the way to great and beyond.
Every guy is a bit different as far as what he likes, though, so find out what yours is into, and be sure to give him a little peak. Is he a boob guy? Try rubbing yours against his shaft or his thigh as you please him. Is he a butt man? Position yourself so he can totally enjoy the rearview. Many guys are very into making eye contact while receiving head, as well.
Get your hands involved.
Naturally, your lips, mouth, and tongue are the main attractions when it comes to a blow job, but that doesn’t mean they have to work alone. You also have two skillful hands to bring into the mix, and there are many ways you can use them to elevate a simple blow job to dizzying new heights.
Try stroking the lower half of his shaft or massaging his balls while you suck. Squeeze him, rub him, and grab him with just the right pressure. You can use your hands to explore other areas of his body while you blow him, as well – like his chest, thighs, or butt.
Take your time.
Ask any guy what they wish their partners would do differently when they’re giving head, and you’ll get a lot of different answers. But most will say something about wishing the person would stay down there longer. Many people rush through giving head or only do it for a moment before moving on to the next thing on the agenda. But you can set yourself apart by doing differently.
Let the experience linger a bit. Take your time, and take it slow. Tease him a little, and stretch the experience out when it makes sense to do so. Make it clear that you’re enjoying this as much as he is and that you’re in no hurry to have it over with. Nothing’s hotter than someone who not only loves pleasuring you but legitimately savors the experience.
Try spicing things up with a toy.
The right sex toy can do so much when it comes to elevating intimacy between you and your partner. Toys introduce new sensations into the mix – sensations that feel like a dream come true for both of you. And they make every stage of the sexual experience better, more exciting, and more interesting from foreplay, to intercourse, to – yes, you guessed it – blow jobs.
Find out how your guy might feel about using a small toy together beforehand, as it’s not the kind of thing you want to just spring on someone. Then, if he’s game, try bringing a versatile option like a vibrating bullet to bed with you the next time you have a blow job planned.
Get him good and turned on first, and then press the bullet against his perineum – the patch of skin between his balls and his anus. You’ll stimulate his balls and his prostate for some seriously incredible extra oomph.
At the end of the day, there’s nothing quite like a well-executed blow job to brighten a guy’s day, so it’s well worth mastering your technique. It’s a game-changer your guy is sure to appreciate. Get started today!
